Is it toxic — or are you overthinking it?
Tell it what's going on, paste the messages, or send a screenshot — an AI reads what actually happened and names the pattern, with the quotes that prove it.
VibeCheck
Reads the pattern, not your mood
Here's what you get
A straight read, with the receipts - eleven sections of it.
Red Flag Zone
You're apologising for things you didn't do. That's a pattern, not a rough patch.
Blame Reversal
"the exact quote from his messages"
+ 8 more sections
Example only. Yours is built from your own answers.
Why not just ask your friends?
Do both. They're just answering a different question.
Your friends love you. That's exactly why they're the wrong people to ask.
How VibeCheck works
About a minute, start to finish.
Start talking
Tap an answer or just type what's going on. A few short questions to get the shape of it.
Show the messages
Optional. Paste the texts or send screenshots - that's what lets us quote him back to you.
Get the read
The pattern named - control, breadcrumbing, stonewalling - with evidence and what to do next.
Built on actual research
We read 100+ signals in how you two talk, using frameworks psychologists actually use.
Your privacy comes first
100% Confidential — Your personal chat screenshots are processed securely and are never stored on our servers.
End-to-End Encryption — All uploaded data is encrypted during transit and completely wiped instantly after the analysis is generated.
No Third-Party Sharing — Your data belongs to you. We never sell, share, or use your conversations for AI training.
Questions people actually ask
Is this actually private?
Yes, and specifically: your screenshots are read once to build your report, then deleted. They're never stored, never shown to anyone, and never used to train anything. The report itself lives at a link only you have.
Can they find out I did this?
No. Nothing is sent to anyone, nothing is posted, and the other person is never contacted in any way. This is entirely between you and the page.
Do I need screenshots?
No. Telling us what's happening is enough for a full read. Screenshots or pasted messages make it sharper - we can quote him back to you and write a reply that answers what he actually said - but plenty of people skip that and still get something useful.
What if it's not about texting at all?
That's fine. Plenty of people come here about a marriage, a partner who twists things around, someone avoidant, or the loop of wondering whether they're the problem. Just say what's going on in your own words.
How accurate can it really be?
It reads patterns - who initiates, how fast replies come, how effort is distributed, which behaviours match known attachment and conflict patterns. It's very good at that. It cannot read minds, and it only sees what you show it. Treat it as a sharp second opinion, not a verdict.
What do I get for free?
A complete read: your verdict, interest score, the strongest flag we found, and hard numbers on the dynamic. The full report adds every remaining flag with exact quotes, the psychological breakdown, the forecast, and two replies written for you to send.
Am I signing up for a subscription?
Only if you choose one. There's a one-time option for a single report, and a subscription for people checking more than one conversation. Subscriptions are managed and cancelled through Stripe, not by emailing us.
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Ready to stop guessing?
Start the conversation. Screenshots optional. Your first read is free.