Patterns

Behaviour that has a name, described plainly - what it sounds like, what it looks like, and the part most articles leave out: when it is NOT that.

Most lists of red flags are written so that everyone finds themselves in them. These are not. Each one says where the line is, and what falls on the ordinary side of it.

None of this can tell you about your relationship.

A page describes a pattern in general. Whether it is yours depends on things only your own messages contain. That is what the read is for - and the first one is free.

Check mine